My Life, et. al

Jun. 27th, 2025 09:23 am
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 I'm currently reading a book called CULTISH: The Language of Fanaticism by Amanda Montell.  It's a book that Mason brought home from college and had in his discard (as in to go out to the Little Free Library) pile. I picked it up because a friend of mine just shared a story about a friend of hers from college who was in a cult in the 1990s.  I'm not normally a person who is super into all this sort of thing, but I mean, I did watch all of  the 2015 movie, Going Clear about Scientology.  The book is a little frustrating because it was written in 2021 and the author skirts around taking seriously Trump's language as fantaticism (even while mentioning it) and that doesn't play well post Insurrection and current administration. Like, girl. You could have punched up HARDER. You were, in fact, on to something.

Ironically, I've been spending my free time doing something that feels cult adjactent.

I'm on the programming committee for this year's Gaylaxicon which I have mentioned a dozen times in other contexts. But, my current work has involved trying to recruit local professionals to attend. I feel a little bit like I'm standing on a soap box evangalizing, hoping to get some curious people to sign up! (Seriously, have you thought about attending?? It's a fun con! You don't have to be queer to go!  Membership is currently the low, low price of $80!!) 

 It's also been kind of time (and energy) consuming.  

Very cultish. 

Anyway, I am currently waiting for my brother-in-law to text or call to let me know that he's done with his MRIs. This whole week has been a series of tests for him (and, as it happens, the rest of my family.) So, I've been the Rounds Lyft driver, only without the pay. Ah well. That's what family is for. 

Little Free Library Volunteering

Jun. 24th, 2025 05:06 pm
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 I did a fun thing today.

I found out through VolunteerMatch that Tropes & Trifles was looking for people to restock books in little free library "book deserts." So, this afternoon, I drove out, got my box of books, and set out with the Little Free Library app. 

I had never installed the LFL app before. I had lost the "confirm your email" email and so I wasn't able to take notes as I drove around (I have since rectified that) and so I mostly used the app for its ability to give me GPS directions to various LFL. I still have half a box yet to deliver. I'll try to remember to take pictures when I go out driving tomorrow!  

I'm now very tired, but what fun!

A Walk in the Park

Jun. 23rd, 2025 02:02 pm
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 This week is the week of appointments. The appointments range from a haircut (for me) to neurologists to taking my brother-in-law to see his cancer specialists. Today was the neurologist (for Shawn.) I've long noticed that there was a small park behind the office, but I had never explored it before. I discovered it's called Hazelwood Park. 

Suburban Lake
A suburban lake. It has a name, which I am sure is lovely, but I am filled with such jealousy that I can't be bothered to look it up.

Sometimes I regret buying a house in Midway. The other thing I had to do today was drive over to a friend's house in Minneapolis. This friend lives on (like literally, he has lake front property) Diamond Lake. GPS, in its infinite wisdom, drove me there via all of the parkways in Minneapolis. I started on Minnehaha and then turned off to the Lake Nokomis Parkway. I spend the entire time... well, enjoying the view, but also green with envy. I am literally looking out at concrete and garbage on a daily basis. The most lovely thing near my house is the statue of a loon near LITERALLY the busiest interesction in the entire Twin Cities (University and Snelling.) It is ugly, industrial, and garbage strewn. 

Sigh.

But, I mean, you live where you can afford, right?

Imagine having this for your backyard, though, eh?

someone's backyard
Image: that house on the hill has one helluva backyard, even if it technically belongs to the city. 

Weak Ass, a Diagnosis

Jun. 22nd, 2025 02:39 pm
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 As you know, gentle reader, I've been hiking a lot in the great northwoods. What I may not have told you is how much my right foot has been hurting afterward and how much I thought that the problem was an aging hip that might need replacement. 

Good news! The physical therapist I saw on Wednesday is pretty sure my hip joints are doing all right. What he diagnosed me with, instead, was a weak ass. Obviously, that's not what he said. What he said was that my butt has a lot of muscles and I got out of the habit of using a number of them regularly. The ones I stopped using were degrading my gait. Basically, certain muscles had atrophied from being so sedentary and I'd developed the old lady waddle. 

Phase one of treatment is to wake up my dead ass muscles. So, I have a whole series of five or so exercises to keep me busy. They're easy stretchy excercises, however, three of which I can do lying down, two I can do while sitting, and one I can do while standing. Because I'm married to Shawn Rounds, PT Queen and Project Manager, I suspect I will have no trouble being reminded to do my exercises. At any rate, I see my physical therapist in two weeks to check on my progress. 

A couple of funny stories about the appointment.

First, when I did the intake form, they ask a lot of questions that made me realize that a LOT of people who go to PT regularly are in much, much worse shape than I am. So, at one point, in the margins I wrote, "I'm fat, but otherwise healthy!" Jake, my physical therapist, found this deeply charming and told me so. 

I then charmed him again when he asked me to lie on my side for one so I could try one of the exercises and I said, "Wait, I should take out some of the things in my pockets." Out of my pockets came: my keys, about a dozen foreign coins, my inhailer, and three cool rocks. I could see him looking at this collection of things wanting to say something, so I explained, "You know the meme that where it says 'the worst thing about being an adult is that no one ever shows you a cool rock anymore'? Well, do you want to see a cool rock?" Jake found this oddly delightful.

Which, frankly, is my best feature. Being odd and delightful.

Tolkien lecture

Jun. 22nd, 2025 10:43 am
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My talk for the Tolkien lecture series hosted by Pembroke College, Oxford is up on YouTube: The Uses of Fantasy. I really enjoyed doing it, though I'm now out of the one idea I had for a Guest of Honour/whatever speech lolol. I have used it up!!

Wednesday Reading Greeting

Jun. 18th, 2025 02:11 pm
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Since I reported on some of what I read up north, I don't have a whole lot to report on today. I finished Network Effect by Martha Wells on audiobook, though, and have started another audio book I'm not sure I'll finish called The Moon Represents My Heart by Pim Wangtechawat. (The new one is feeling a little "literary." We'll see.) 

As I'm sure I've discussed previously, I'm on the programming committee for this year's Gaylaxicon. As part of that I've been trying to read as much as I can of the works of some of the GoHs (Nghi Vo, Emma Törzs, KD Edwards, and Jim Johnson.) I'm largely caught up on Vo and Törzs's novels and novellas, though I've been doing a bit of a deep dive into some of their short stories. This week I read:

By Törzs
"The Path of Water" (Uncanny, March 2022) 
"The Hungry Ones," (Uncanny, May 2021)
"From the Root" (Lightspeed, June 2018)

By Vo
"Stitched Into the Skin Like Family Is" (Uncanny, March 2024)

I'm off to the library now to see what they might have of KD Edward's The Tarot Sequence books. I am sad that Libby turned up no audio book, alas. But, so it goes. 

How about you? Reading anything fun? Anything terrible? Anything meh?

MOOSE

Jun. 17th, 2025 05:06 pm
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 speck of moose in water
Image: squint at the circled bit. It is a moose.

As previously noted, my family always jokes when we're up north about all the moose we're NOT seeing. We religiously trek up to Moose Viewing and happily see no moose. But, this trip was not, in fact, mooseless. 

On Friday morning, Shawn and I were up before six am, per usual. We like to go down to the dock and just take in the absolute silence (by which I actually mean all the racket of the birds.) So, there we are just staring off into the lake. The guy in the dock next to us is quietly getting his motorboat ready to head off for some fishing, and Shawn says--somewhat quietly because Bearskin is very strict about it's quiet hours, which are until 10 am, "What's that?" 

I look over to where she is pointing and my brain registers an image that is something like this: \---/

I think: kayak? It's certainly moving at speeds. But the little up parts aren't going up and down. It's also making hardly any splashs. I offer "Kayak?" just as Shawn says, "Some weird piece of driftwood?" But then something clicks for both of us and we realize the sticky-up bits are EARS and we're like, "Oh! OH! It's a MOOSE!"

I honestly tend to forget that moose are powerful swimmers. 

Even though just the day before, Bob, the owner of Bearskin, had been telling me about how the moose come right down to the water's edge to calve in May because, if a bear or other predator is around, the mama and newborn can make a quick escape into the water. Which is just WILD considering how massive and ungainly these animals look. Like, they look like they should flail around and sink, not glide around a deep lake like they're fully motorized. 

Anyway, I try to get the guy next to us excited, but apparently toxic masculinity means all he can do is grunt, "Huh. Yeah. Moose," like he sees moose swimming in a deep lake every other day, ho hum. Later, however, I hear him telling his family about the moose, so I guess even the toughest of the tough guys aren't fully immune to how F*CKING AWESOME MOOSE ARE. 

And, yeah, the picture sucks. No one has a good telephoto lens on their camera in my house of cheap phones, so you'll just have to deal with Shawn's best effort. Trust me, when you're looking with your actual eyes it was much more clearly moosey. But, I won't lie. It does look like one of those photos trying to convince you that there is a Loch Ness Monster. 

That was kind of the pinnacle of the day and it was only quarter to seven.

I am hard pressed to remember the rest of the day. IIRC, it was very windy after that calm cold morning, but after seeing the moose in the water we all kind of wanted to be sure to get out in the canoe. Mason and I fought the wind all the way around "the point" as we call it, but it was ridiculously windy. But, that is what novels and a roaring fire are for.

Our final day was Saturday. Shawn and I canoed at an insanely early hour again (now looking for WATER MOOSE) but saw none. We did have a lovely, perfectly calm day, however, to do our gentle gliding. I miss it so much right now, it's not even funny.

On the way back, I really, really wanted to try to get stamps for State Parks. There are a ton up there and I have decided that, since my passport book is a life project, it's okay to run in, get a stamp. So long as the plan is to explore the parks "for real" some other time. There are, for instance, several state parks that I DON'T have stamps for that Mason and I spent hours exploring. Even so, perhaps it's cheating? I have zero intention of actually trying to get a plaque or whatever the prize is if you fill up a book, so it doesn't feel that way to me. 

Regardless, we EARNED the Cascade Falls State Park stamp, holy crap.

At first, I had intended to just go in, get a stamp and maybe a patch, but I got to talking to the ranger there (a pine marten murdered a whole bunch of her chickens, "Cute little guy, though!" she said cheerily in a fully Fargo accent,) and she convinced us that it was worth trying to see the falls. 

Cascade Upper Falls
Image: Cascade Upper Falls. Worth the Detour!!

The walk up to see this from the Trail Center was 0.5 miles, but we got confused by the idea of the "loop hike" to see both upper and lower falls and so Mason and I proceded to get... well, not lost, but turned around by the map several times. This would not normally be a problem but the hikes at Cascade River State Park are along a massive gorge and so there are a lot of stairs and extremely steep slopes. I did alright? But thank goodness I'd been practicing, and honestly, nothing can compare to the stairs at Judge C. R. Magney/Devil's Kettle. Poor Shawn decided to stay behind again ans started to worry when this very tiny hike turned into forty-five minute hike. 

Lower falls at Cascade State Park
Image: Cascade River's lower falls

Then it was just a lot of dodging in and dodging out, slowed down by the fact that the day we came back was Free State Park Day and literally everyone and their dog was out checking out the state parks (Gooseberry State Park had an actual Dog Day event. So many good puppers!)  It took us forever to get back, but, luckily, my family was on board. The only bummer/hassle was an extremely slow waitress at Betty's Pies. It seems a little bit... intentional? Like, maybe a bit homophobic? The only scar in our otherwise great day. We put a whole bunch of State Parks on our "must return to for a more serious look" list. 

One park that isn't quite so far away that I really want to return to is Jay Cooke. That place looked INSANELY cool. But, I'd honestly spend several days in all of them, if I could.

So, that's all the moose fit to print. 

If you want to see a better shot of moose in the wild, check out "North Woods Adventure (Part 1)" from our very first trip to Bearskin in 2010: https://lydamorehouse.dreamwidth.org/173253.html
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 I am still hoping to do a recap of our last day at Bearskin (a moose! for real!) and the trip back (so many state parks!) but I am still recovering. 

For whatever reason, coming back is hard this time. Like, really hard. I don't know if it's the gloomy weather we've been having in the Twin Cities or the genearl political climate or what, but I'm just not feeling great. I'm feeling especially unloved at this very moment because I looked through a list of "professional attendees" for WorldCON and did not see my name. 

Like, part of me is as hurt and surprised as not... 

I've kind of been waiting for this day?

Like, there comes a time when a person just isn't relevant anymore. No matter if you've just published a book a few years ago. Or you're working your ass off so people know you're in the Pride StoryBundle and podcasting like mad. That stop stops mattering. You become noise. The noise of a thousand wannabes and hasbeens. You drop so completely out of the consciousness of the modern reader that it's like you never existed. 

Not being recognized as an attending professional at the Seattle WorldCON really feels like one of these watershed moments. I can see the abyss below me. 

I wish I understood why some people are never swallowed by it and other are. I have written and professionally published over a dozen books. Yet there are people who wrote ONE book whose names will live in the annals of history forever. 

Whelp. I've asked Seattle WorldCON to please consider me an attending professional, but at this point my guess is that, if they do add me, it will be as Lydia Morehouse. 

Edited to add: I am there now! They either added me quickly or it was hidden? 

Edited Addtion: There is an interesting discussion going on right now on the SFWA page about the virtual end of Seattle. As I have said here many times, I'm a big fan of virtual cons. They're great for people who can't travel. 

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